Dear boys who want to pursue me,

It takes a lot, eh. I know, I fucking want you, too. Do you feel that? I hope you do.

Ok, this part is where we kinda move forward with all the bullshit but also I am aware that the intention is probably not pure yet. I get it, dating is never easy. I have first-hand experience of it, and I am sure you have, too. For this purpose, let me just say, we have that understanding already, we want to explore that spark we are having.

Conversations are productive and I love that you are so open about it. There must be something there that made you want to know more about me. It would be splendid to know more things about each other as we go along the process. This might take time, so we have to be patient.

I like to travel. Muncho Lake, I miss you!

Since you said, you want to move forward. I want to know what you are considering and what the intent is. Pursuing me could mean short-term or long-term. I am ok with both, but I prefer the latter. I am assuming when you say moving forward, means you want to continue meeting if we have met each other already. Or get to know more of each other by exchanging numbers, I am sure you have my number already. I was giggling when we exchanged digits. So yes to texting and flirting. Those can be fun.

If you want to pursue me, I have some requests. I hate to say they are conditions but sort of. I want respect. I bet you hear that from a lot of women. I think it is very important, don't you think? Respect begets respect. That is just the rule. I hope that my trans-ness is not an issue since we want to progress. It looks like you recognize what you are doing and dealing with. I'd like to know what things you are offering on the table. I am interested.

Don't worry, I have things to offer, too. I am not asking for a lot. I can cook dinner, and I am a good little spoon. Ya know in bed. I think we should try it one of these days. I would like to go for a walk. I am certain a glorious sunset is something that you are interested in. I'd like to go for brunch or dinner. You choose.

I stated it in my profile, maybe the two of us should go back to each other's profile or text messages about what we like and don't like. However, let's focus on the things we like first, and as we get along, we will find all those little quirks that irritate us. I possess some. I am not perfect. This girl can be impatient, but I promise I have been better.

I wanted to know as well if you are interested in introducing me to your friends, and possibly with your family. I know that is too much to ask especially early on, but I wanted to know if there is that possibility in the future. Especially, if you might be thinking of something long-term. I am not rushing into things. I am looking for a shameless kind of love and affection. I think we both deserve that.

I can be fun but I also have my quirks

The last thing I wanted to say, I don't want to be ignored or flaked at. Those two things are not cool. Being ignored is not the best feeling. I have to remember that the problem is not me but you. It is your loss, not mine.

It all boils down to what you want and how serious you are with me. An FYI, action speaks louder than words. Still want to pursue me; I am waiting.

Sincerely,

Jade