Stand up for Trans Rights

March 31st is the Transgender Day of Visibility.

It may not be super special for other people but for myself and other trans individuals it is significant. I must say crucial. The world recognizes transgender and non-binary people. We have seen it in the news, politics and in our community. It is not only our day but also a day to recognize our allies and supporters.

I am visible. I am me.

I remember waking up this morning looking at the memoriesI have on facebook. I posted 3 years ago reminding myself, my trans sisters and trans brothers to live authentically. I know that living in the valley, being a bible belt area, it is challenging.I have experienced it first hand where people will spew bible verses on you regarding how the creator made us and that we should be this and that. Did it terrify me, NO!I am no different than others. There is so much work that still needs to happen in the community. The recognition and acknowledgment of our existence is still an issue. Despite that, we remain resilient, and we continue to be visible and do the work so we can empower trans individuals so we can live and express ourselves genuinely.

I notice the progress.I have seen it at my workplace.I still hear the incorrect pronouns, and I have seen co-workers stood up for me by correcting other people. It makes me so happy. The fact that they are advocating for you is just a proof that there are people who see you and they are helping to normalize things one step at a time. I also have a role here, I speak up when people say things to me and Ido the same for others. My representation is only a small part, but I know that it all begins from me to make this world a better place for everyone.

Everyone needs to show empathy, acceptance and care.

Our allies and supporters are big in our lives. They have done their part to become our partner in mitigating and eradicating transphobia.The work needs to spread. There are many ways to be an ally. It all starts with a research, educate ourselves and think before you speak.Ask the person on what pronouns they want to use. Dump stereotypes and letting people be their own selves. Treating others with respect. Being inclusive is so important, too. We need to be open to listening to stories of transgender and non-binary individuals.Seek out those individuals who lived experience carry a weight on how we can produce small changes.

Today is not only an opportunity to celebrate transgender and non-binary individuals. Everyone needs to show empathy, acceptance and care. Optimistically one day there is fewer stories of discrimination, death, aggression, and no unsafe places for gender minority.