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Vestigial Appendage and Dating

  • Writer: TL
    TL
  • Jul 11, 2019
  • 3 min read

Updated: Jun 7, 2020

It is a big or a small question? Or should I say should it even be a question? I am not sure if writing "dick" on the title would be appropriate.


Dating apps or even in-person meet up, I am sure the topic comes up and the question of how does the guy measure up. It can turn the conversation from interesting, to intriguing or perhaps, embarrassing. No one is whipping anything out yet, this is just a conversation starter. It is funny I am saying that it is a conversation starter because what happens to the connection. I've read profiles and have heard people say, "I am looking for connections." People seem to be jumping from inter-connection to intercourse-nection. If there is such a word.


What role does it have in the dating scene? How important it is? Take note that some have height preferences and I think the same applies to penis size. I am not even going deep with talking about race and if there is any co-relation with penis sizes. It appears that some are not truly dating, they are penis dating. Well, it is like shopping. Another question, too, does it make someone terrible if they start asking about the size? Should it be part of the credential?


" People seem to be jumping from inter-connection to intercourse-nection"


I am going to dive into the penis size and dating (Yes, I said the word dive in). Dating like I always say is difficult but it looks like getting laid is, too. So, if someone is so consumed with someone's length or girth then I think it must be important to others and is a legitimate criterion when you are dating someone. I am not providing a general statement here because people are different from their standards and criteria when it comes to dating. Moreover, we should separate the issue of dating and get laid as I would only be discussing penis size and dating on this one. As for the discussion on this blog, I would like to point out that penis size becomes a topic in conversation when people exchange numbers or emails or snapchat or IG/FB profile names. Take note that this is the phase where you talk and you are trying to figure out whether the guy is dating material or at the back of your head bed material. The conversation becomes intense and elaborate. We want to get to the bottom of it and the questions start floating, "What size are we talking about here?" Silence.


The size matters to some and for some, it does not. However, if we are looking at the question as to whether it should be part of the list, then it is someone's discretion and prerogative. Does it make you an awful person? I don't think so, there is a site 7orBetter.com and it is a site for meeting men with penis sizes 7 inches or longer. Their mission statement talks about informing women "upfront if a man has what it takes to satisfy you sexually." It is your dating life and you have the right to list all the likes and dislikes you wanted on your profile. In dating, you have your assessment process and it is up to you on how you are going to customize that yourself. It all boils down to what your values are and what you wanted out of your dating. If you wanted fun, then so be it.


Connection or bed-connection can only be defined by you and no one should be dictating on how your dating should look like. People's interest is different and we should do whatever is satisfying to all our senses even if it means we wanted an extra-large one.





 
 
 

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